In your heart, you know you’re a catch. You’re sensitive, compassionate and have a zest for life that attracts people to you like bees to honey.
You are also kind and thoughtful, which makes it even more baffling why no one seems interested in dating you.
That is because you are an unlikely candidate for romance. As a Pisces, your sign indicates that love will not be easy for you, or come easily to you. In fact, there may be many lonely nights ahead of you as a result of being born under this sign.
While some might see this as a bad thing, think of it as another opportunity to grow from the experience and ultimately emerge stronger than ever before!
A brief astrological analysis
When you’re dating, it’s important to understand your love language. That is, what makes you feel loved and cared for in return?
Perhaps your partner can give you physical affection (touch), words of affirmation (words), quality time together, or even acts of service as a way of showing love.
However, in order for this to work, you both have to speak the same love language. The best way to determine your love language is to take this online quiz.
Your zodiac sign likely impacts your love language, and may reveal key insights into how you best receive and give love in relationships. This can help you better understand your dating struggles and improve your odds of finding lasting love.
The problem with being Pisces
You are a very sensitive person, which is a beautiful trait. Unfortunately, this makes you susceptible to feeling hurt and heartbroken more easily than others. You may also be very open to others, without any real guard up, which is an automatic turn-off for many people.
For these reasons and more, you may attract only the wrong kind of partner, who isn’t ready to settle down and could potentially break your heart. This is why you often find yourself both single and alone. You try to be open and available, but end up attracting people who aren’t emotionally ready for a relationship.
You also may also attract people who are only interested in your money. Unfortunately, some people are only interested in you for your cash.
Your ideal partner might be…
If you are hoping to meet a partner who is ready to settle down, then you will likely only attract the wrong kind of person. If you want to change your love luck, then you need to change your outlook on dating.
You can’t continue to be open and available, hoping to meet someone who actually wants a relationship. Instead, you need to close yourself off. You need to guard your heart and be less open to others.
Yes, this may be an uncomfortable shift, but it’s one that could ultimately save you from heartbreak. You may also want to consider toning down your Pisces charm. Sure, it may have worked in the past, but nowadays, it could be too much for many people.
What You Can Do To Change This
There are many things you can do to change the fact that you are single. First and foremost, you need to change your outlook on relationships. Instead of hoping for the best and hoping a partner will magically appear, you need to take action.
First, be clear about what you want. In order to get what you want, you must know what you want. Are you looking for a long-term relationship, or are you content with casual dating? Are you open to dating men or women, or both?
What are your deal breakers? You also need to be ready. You can’t expect someone to fall in love with you if you aren’t ready to fall in love. If you aren’t ready, then you need to work on yourself first before diving into the dating scene.
The truth is, love often finds us when we aren’t even looking for it. You don’t need to do anything drastic to change your love life, but you do need to be open and ready for love to find you.
You already have the love language you need to find the love you want. It’s just a matter of being open to receiving it.
There are millions of single people out there who are just like you, who are looking for love. You just need to be open to receiving it and ready to give it.