Dating is hard. And dating as a Gemini man can be even harder. You want to date, but you just don’t know how to find the right person.
And then, when you find someone, they’re not interested in more than just being friends. Why? Well, maybe you’re showing signs that say “just friends””. Here are some of the most common signals that a Gemini man might just want to be friends.
A Gemini man may just want to be friends if he is stand-offish, always late to return your texts, or acts un interested the majority of the time. If you bring up getting together, he may not seem too keen.
The Reasons Gemini Men Want to Be Friends
It may not be what you want to hear, but if you’re a Gemini man and you’re only interested in dating your best female friend, then that’s probably because you just want to be friends. And if that’s the case, here are some common reasons why.
Hes not sure how you really feel
Are you sure you have made yourself clear ? Gemini Men a notorious for missing signs and may have suspected youre the one whos not interested.
So instead of coming off as too aggressive or too eager, you might just want to keep things platonic because he doesnt want to risk ruining the friendship. It may seem like a good way to protect your friendship with you, but he probably has other thoughts on that matter.
#2 He enjoys the company of women in general
It’s not always about one specific woman. Sometimes all women can get exhausting after awhile! For some Gemini men, they are simply more interested in being friends with women because they are surrounded by them all day at work or school. Dating would be too much sometimes—they would rather have a few close platonic female friends around them who they can depend on when needed for advice or companionship.
More Signs a Gemini Man Just Wants to be Friends
It can be really tough to tell whether a Gemini man just wants to be friends or not. You never know if he’s just shy or you’re not his type. But if you pay attention, there are certain signs that might give away his intentions.
If you think a guy is interested in dating and then he calls things off the next day, maybe he was just feeling things out and realized he isn’t interested after all. Signs like this can mean it’s time to be patient and wait for him to make up his mind about what he wants.
Meanwhile, if you’re wondering why a Gemini man doesn’t want anything more than friends, there are some definite indicators that could be tipping you off:
* He spends most of his time with other guys instead of girls his age
* He never asks you out on a date
* He never tries to kiss or hold your hand
* He always makes excuses when you try to set something up
How to Tell if You’re Interested in Friendship or Dating
That’s right. Sometimes its us who aren’t sure what we want out of a relationship. Make sure you’re really on the same page to avoid unnecessary heartache.
1. You’re always looking for ways to be helpful.
Geminis are well-known for their helpful but sometimes stingy nature, but this can sometimes devolve into a need to be needed. This can manifest itself during the early stages of dating, where friendships are often accompanied by a desire to help our partner in any way possible.
While it’s true that Geminis are skilled at small talk and keeping conversations going, too much conversation about problems or feelings can make us uncomfortable. So if you find yourself trying to solve all your date’s problems or offer advice instead of asking them questions, it may be time for you to rethink what you want from the relationship.
2. You never take things too seriously.
Your date is not having fun? You want to take them out on another date? It doesn’t matter! Geminis just aren’t very serious people when it comes down to it—and that includes our feelings about relationships as well as the messages we send to others about how they should feel about theirs.
If your date is trying hard to get you into something more than friendship, but you’re telling them that “it’ll happen when it happens”, then there’s a good chance that there’s no interest on your
Conclusion
The Gemini man is a hard one to figure out. Sometimes they’re interested in a relationship and others they’re not. It’s important to read the signs and learn how to tell if a Gemini man is interested in friendship or dating.